Customer Service Pyramid

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Our customer service pyramid is an innovative,  effective, yet simple model of delivering excellent customer service.

It’s the product of 18 years of my academic and professional research and practice!

Customer Service Pyramid with sections labeled Language, Respect + Appreciation, Empathy, and Communication.

The foundation of exceptional customer service is effective communication — both with your customers and your team members. Throughout their journey, customers constantly interact with your customer service teams and your frontline staff. They communicate with your employees in person, by email or text, using smartphone apps and online chats, or by contacting your call center.

Effective empathy is the ability to fully and accurately understand your customer’s experience — so that you can better address their challenges and needs and, in turn, provide exceptional service. Empathy improves communication and relationships with your customers while building lasting trust.

Each customer expects respect and appreciation from your business. They want to build a balanced and trusting relationship with your team — so that they can work with you to address their needs successfully.

Language is a tool that is both easy to use and effective but often overlooked in customer service. Individual-first language serves multiple purposes:

  • Helps your customers understand what you write or say the first time they read or hear it

  • Evokes positive emotions

  • Facilitates problem-solving and collaboration with your customers

  • Describes each customer as a unique and valued individual

  • Conveys respect, appreciation, understanding, and compassion

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Empathy is not an easy task!

Empathy is the ability to understand the way your customers experience and perceive the world. It’s not an easy task! Each and every customer is a unique individual. As humans, we are complex and nuanced.

Our brains are wired differently. We have different talents, strengths, and challenges. We develop different skill sets, acquire different knowledge, and go through different experiences. We choose different paths in life.

Each of us lives in and is shaped by multiple cultures. Our family, circle of friends, neighborhood, faith community, profession, and workplace — each of these groups has its own distinct culture. We also build new cultures when we start our own families, friend groups, and communities.

Our training programs will help your frontline staff understand your customers and their needs on an individual level. The field of empathy has been growing substantially over the last decade. We’ve been at the forefront of both its research and practice.

Ensure clear, respectful, and empathetic communication with each and every customer!

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Customers with disabilities

With both visible and invisible health conditions

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Neurodivergent customers

With traits of autism, ADHD, and dyslexia

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Older adults

Aged 60 and above

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Customers who are in crisis

Experiencing stress or anxiety (e.g., during medical emergencies or neighbor disputes)

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Multicultural customers

Across family and community cultures

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Customers who don’t speak English fluently

Limited English and Non-English Proficient